Guys and red heads!?

Do guys like red headed girls? I have red hair and guys just dont seem to like it now. I have red hair and green eyes. I dont have any freckles. Why dont guys like me? Am I ugly? I am only 13 and all of my friends have had atleast 10 boyfriends and they're not even pretty. I have only had about 4 or 5. I dont understand. Do guys even like red heads?

Guys and red heads!?

Calling your friends ugly isn't cool. Maybe boys don't like you because you have low self esteem. Quit worrying about your friend's boyfriends and focus on yourself. You could attract more boys if you stopped acting like such a jealous person.

Guys and red heads!?

I'm sorry - but, I don't think its the hair - I think its the attitude. you said your friends aren't even pretty?? whats that supposed to mean. what exactly makes them not pretty? and in whos eyes- yours?

be a friend, and don't say your friends aren't pretty.

definately- its the attitude. ... not the color of the hair.

Guys and red heads!?

yes, you'll be fine. you're only 13. stop worrying about these things, and stop having boyfriends...

Guys and red heads!?

YES! Most Guys LOVE Redheads!! =D

Guys and red heads!?

hey, im addicted to red heads, be proud of that... another time another place, i'd be all over you haha...

just be yourself, trust me on this one and give it time you're still quite young they'll be plenty of guys.

Guys and red heads!?

If its hair they care about, then thats stupid. They aint worth ur time. Dont worry sweetie. A lot of guys like red heads. Including yours truly. :P (course you're too young for me).

And what the ****? Why are ya'll getting so many bf's at such young ages? Do you think that makes ya'll look good or something? One of those guys is gonna lie one day and say he had sex with yall. So slow down on guys.

Guys and red heads!?

You are 13. That means the boys around you are immature.

They don't know girls from shinola. (That means they don't know girls)

I know you may not want to hear this...

Take your time. Let your friends make all the mistakes. Watch them get all the broken hearts. Boys your age are not ready for real relationships. They are only looking for one thing and will say anything to get it.

Just like wine and cheese get better with age, so will your chances of finding a nice guy.

Worst thing you can do is walk around feeling all sorry for yourself that guys aren't paying attention to you. You are smarter than that.

So, go do the things you like to do. Go have fun without worrying. Boys your age are more trouble than they are worth.

And then you never know, maybe some nice boy will see how independant and choosy you are and ask you out.

And you know those girls at 13 that looked really cute? At 20 they look worn. And the girls who were plain Janes at 13 looked incredible at 20. Which would you rather be?

Respect yourself. Give it time. I bet your going to be a knockout when you get older.

And no, Redheads are sexy. So I don't think your hair or complexion is keeping them away. Maybe they know that you are too smart for their bullsh!t...

Good luck.

A~